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Friday, December 31, 2010
happy new year...
today is the last day of 2010! let's end the year with a beautiful day and 2011 will be a fantastic year for you all. even if things didn't go in your way in 2010, hope that you can make things right in 2011. never give up...happy new year ♥
help me ... i mis my fren so much.. even he already forget me.. n mb has throw me far2 away ... i really suffer losing him as my bezfrenn.. what 2 do??
no..no... i didn't mean to add ur prob in ur critcal tym..i jz want to say it.. let it b who is him .. i jz miss him... do i need to get rid him from my mind?? evn he say he hate me.. my heart stick to miss him.. i realy sory if i disturbng u... tq 4 rep me... it realy make me release..
Owh.sorry for the misunderstanding.I'm not a good adviser,but I'll try my best ok...
You must consider what went wrong in the first place. It's human nature to want to place the blame for a break up squarely on the other person's shoulders. If you do this, you're never going to get him back. Even if he broke up with you, there was a reason behind it. Take stock of how you behaved during the time you two were together. Think back to what he complained about and then change it. If you stand any hope of getting him back, you're going to have to prove to him that you've learned from your past mistakes.
There really is no way of knowing exactly how long these things last. if there was, it would make things so much easier for all of us. Hope you're getting through it ok...hwaiting~!!
tq 4 ur advice... he nver cmplained bout me.. he jz gud 2 me.. he jz dun wan 2 go on wif our frenship bcoz i already hv bf.. but.. i miss him so much..i realy love our frenshp.. but i noe.. it hard for him to be my fren.. mb 2 selfish 4 me to ask frenship from him.. but..deeply in my heart..i realy mis him n miss our frenshp... each of our memory keep goin round my head.. should i get rid of it?? and how?? or..cn i jz cntct him?? ..or try 4 frget him??
Waa,your problem is so complicated lorr.I think,I can make a post about this...>,<
Your plan is to forgive and forget: forgive yourself for being stupid, and forget the past mistakes ever existed.
It's not easy, but there are practical ways to let go of your past. Before you delve into letting go and saying good-bye to your past, you may need to face your memories and experiences.
1.Write, talk, draw, paint, or otherwise tap into your thoughts and memories.
2.Let go of the emotions and feelings of painful memories by letting them wash over you – you'll feel horrible during, but relieved and peaceful afterwards.
3.Go back and talk to the people involved, if possible. Letting go of your past can mean going back.
4.Share your real feelings; confess if it's appropriate.
5.Apologize and ask forgiveness if you need to.
I know,it's really hard to forget the 'special one'.I've go through the same thing as you not a long ago.It's really killing me and after that,my heart is close to everyone.I'm just afraid to start any relationship.
I've made mistakes in life, but i don't regret anything because I've learned my lesson.Pain and suffering ends only when you want it to. Put your past behind you and move on.Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself.
It's up to you to forget him or not, but trust me, he felt the same thing as yours.
Think wisely before making any decision ok...hwaiting~!!
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help me ...
ReplyDeletei mis my fren so much..
even he already forget me.. n mb has throw me far2 away ...
i really suffer losing him as my bezfrenn.. what 2 do??
who're you?
ReplyDeletedid ur fren is me??
arghh!!!why so many probs were coming to me at my critical time???...huhu
i'm sory if i'm not contacted you..
it's doesn't mean u're forgetten...
i'm juz getting bz n bz lorr...>,<
no..no... i didn't mean to add ur prob in ur critcal tym..i jz want to say it.. let it b who is him ..
ReplyDeletei jz miss him...
do i need to get rid him from my mind??
evn he say he hate me.. my heart stick to miss him..
i realy sory if i disturbng u...
tq 4 rep me... it realy make me release..
Owh.sorry for the misunderstanding.I'm not a good adviser,but I'll try my best ok...
ReplyDeleteYou must consider what went wrong in the first place. It's human nature to want to place the blame for a break up squarely on the other person's shoulders. If you do this, you're never going to get him back. Even if he broke up with you, there was a reason behind it. Take stock of how you behaved during the time you two were together. Think back to what he complained about and then change it. If you stand any hope of getting him back, you're going to have to prove to him that you've learned from your past mistakes.
There really is no way of knowing exactly how long these things last. if there was, it would make things so much easier for all of us. Hope you're getting through it ok...hwaiting~!!
tq 4 ur advice...
ReplyDeletehe nver cmplained bout me.. he jz gud 2 me..
he jz dun wan 2 go on wif our frenship bcoz i already hv bf..
but.. i miss him so much..i realy love our frenshp.. but i noe.. it hard for him to be my fren.. mb 2 selfish 4 me to ask frenship from him..
but..deeply in my heart..i realy mis him n miss our frenshp... each of our memory keep goin round my head.. should i get rid of it?? and how?? or..cn i jz cntct him?? ..or try 4 frget him??
Waa,your problem is so complicated lorr.I think,I can make a post about this...>,<
ReplyDeleteYour plan is to forgive and forget: forgive yourself for being stupid, and forget the past mistakes ever existed.
It's not easy, but there are practical ways to let go of your past. Before you delve into letting go and saying good-bye to your past, you may need to face your memories and experiences.
1.Write, talk, draw, paint, or otherwise tap into your thoughts and memories.
2.Let go of the emotions and feelings of painful memories by letting them wash over you – you'll feel horrible during, but relieved and peaceful afterwards.
3.Go back and talk to the people involved, if possible. Letting go of your past can mean going back.
4.Share your real feelings; confess if it's appropriate.
5.Apologize and ask forgiveness if you need to.
I know,it's really hard to forget the 'special one'.I've go through the same thing as you not a long ago.It's really killing me and after that,my heart is close to everyone.I'm just afraid to start any relationship.
I've made mistakes in life, but i don't regret anything because I've learned my lesson.Pain and suffering ends only when you want it to. Put your past behind you and move on.Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself.
It's up to you to forget him or not, but trust me, he felt the same thing as yours.
Think wisely before making any decision ok...hwaiting~!!
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ReplyDeletePendaftaran gratis tidak dikenakan biaya apapun juga, minimal Deposit sangat ringan, hanya dengan Rp 100.000 saja anda sudah bisa bergabung bersama kami. ASIANBET77.COM bekerja sama dengan bank lokal yakni BCA, MANDIRI & BNI. Sehingga memudahkan anda untuk bertransaksi bersama kami.
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